Well I realized today that my kids may be the way they are because I have no will power to simply say NO! For some reason when their dad, my husband, tells them no or how it's going to be and they start to cry I want to give in. I want to make them happy or at least make them stop crying. I don't know why that is but I was hit with it today.
I certainly don't want Supper Nanny to come to my home BUT I need a change so that things run smoother and the kids have more respect for me, for us. I know I overcompensate because I grew up in a hard home but I don't know that is the only reason for me giving into them. I feel that God is pulling at my heart to change some things in my home and to be the mother that he has called me to be. Slow change is good but I want God to radically change things in my home. I want the peace that comes to a home that is centered around God.
My kids are Awesome and they are very good outside of the home so I know this can be done, it will be done with the help of God!
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